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OKC suggests romantic pairings based on information gathered from a sprawling, seemingly endless questionnaire. When filling out the questionnaire, users are also asked to rank the relative importance of each question and to say which answer or answers they would prefer in a partner.
Because users are generally able to intuit the basic parameters of how the system works, they upvote the questions most likely to be useful in narrowing down a pool of millions of strangers—that is, the questions most likely to be incredibly divisive. The questionnaire asks users to provide their own definitive standards for in-group and out-group belonging.
Then, in their profiles, users are expected to distinguish themselves within their chosen group or groups through a combination of photographs and prompted text. The ethics of this are out of focus, because the culture has not yet decided where sites like OKCupid fall in terms of public vs.
Part Cindy Sherman film still, part Robert Browning monologue, the best found profiles match the uncanny visual embodiment of a cultural type with an elliptically unraveling text of unconscious self-revelation. I admire this one on a formal level, for its nearly wordless visual grammar and shocking parataxis: MRAs distinguish themselves from these predecessors through their ability to mock-impersonate and invert the specialized language of the very progressive advocacy groups whom they exist to oppose.
Indeed, a landmark in the MRA movement was the launch, inof the-niceguy. Back in —the oldest version of the site currently viewable —the landing page read: Why did I make this site, if I'm Nice?
And yes, they 're horrible beyond imagination. Don't shoot the messenger. It's actually a good thing for me to come out and say this- our biggest critics are our truest friends because they show us how to improve ourselves.
In this case, I'm giving an entire gender the criticism it needs to improve itself. This stereotyping would not be so terrible were it not usually married to a high-pitched tone of moral alarm and indignation.
This tone transmits a large and important cultural meme: The idea that when women choose to have sex they should be meting out some sort of cosmic justice; ordering the universe by rules of honor that are essentially fair—instead of, say, procuring their own sexual satisfaction, or merely to ward off boredom.
The Nice Guy complaint has become a primary and self-obscuring—primary because self-obscuring—way to argue that female sexuality carries an additional moral dimension, one that lies beyond the more straightforward matter of self-determination, and is, within this framework, clearly more significant.
This rhetorical maneuver seems to have been around for as long as American women have been asserting expanded notions of sexual autonomy. Strikingly, this rhetoric can easily shade into what is more simply just emotional abuse. NGOKC extends its analysis beyond the merely anecdotal. While not itself social science, it takes its findings from what is, essentially, one of the most enormous and bizarre social science experiments of all time.
It occurs when a massive store of information created by corporate or government powers is used by individuals for purposes peripheral or counter to the reasons for its collection.
While not unique to the Internet, the detournement of data is one of its signal forms.On its surface, the “Nice Guy” meme appears merely to generalize a specific psychological condition.
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